Waiting is hard. I know that you know that, we can all agree on that. No one wants to wait. In fact, we live in an “I want it now” society where they tell us we don’t have to wait. You want food fast? Plenty of restaurants are willing to accommodate you. Do you want a relationship? Plenty of fish in the pond, boo!
Unfortunately, that’s where the world gets it wrong. Half the journey is experienced in the waiting. That’s why I’ve decided to explain to you, today, why I have chosen to wait instead of date.
Let me show you a few things I’ve been learning from scripture before we delve into that particular sore subject.
“But those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength…”
“The Lord is good to those who wait for Him, to the souls who seek Him.”
“Wait for the Lord, be strong and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!”
All these have come up in the past week during my regular devotional time with God. I’m a firm believer that the entire Bible is God’s word to me, and if He keeps bringing up the same thing over and over again, you’d better believe I’m going to stand up and listen to what He’s trying to tell me.
Did you know that in over half the scriptures that tell us to wait, or be patient, or let God’s timing prevail, that they tell us to “be brave and have courage”? Even God knows that waiting is hard.
So, with that in mind, let me show you a few more things that helped me decide to wait, not date. I hope they’ll help you make a decision one way or another, too.
First off, let me start by pointing out God’s original design for man and woman. Eve didn’t go searching for a man. God created her specifically for one man, and he brought her straight to him. Genesis says that God looked at Adam and said, “It is not good for man to be alone, I will make him a helper comparable to him.” He didn’t “try out” fifteen women before he landed on Eve. God brought them together, and they stayed that way.
Next, I’d like to introduce you to Proverbs 18:22
“But he who finds a WIFE finds a good thing, and receives favor from the Lord.”
(emphasis, my own)
First, let me point out that it isn’t the woman finding a man here. It’s the man finding a woman. And, yeah, that might seem like an outdated concept to you, but I firmly believe God is still in the business of bringing the right people together.
Secondly, I would like to point out that it doesn’t say “he who finds a girlfriend.” In fact, the Hebrew doesn’t even have a word for “girlfriend”. God’s original design for relationships was for them to last forever. “Casual dating” only teaches people that they can back out of a relationship if they have to work too hard.
So, yes, waiting is hard. The good stuff always is. Think about when you were a kid, and you had to wait for a batch of cookies. Didn’t they taste that much better because you waited?
Who cares if it’s not the norm? We left normal in the dust the instant we turned to Christ. Isn’t it better to wait and not have all that emotional baggage when you find THE ONE? (Or, rather, when he finds you?)
I still believe in true love. I still believe God will bring me the perfect mate. Yes, I am still waiting and yes, it is still so hard. I’m human. I have wants, desires, and urges that only get stronger as I get older.
Guys, I’m going, to be honest here. I’ve never even been kissed. I want so badly to know what that feels like. But I’m going to wait on God’s timing. I’m going to wait for that one guy that I will spend the rest of my life with. You know why?
“I believe that I shall look upon the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living! Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord!”
4 thoughts on “While I’m Waiting”
So beautifully written. I my self at currently on a journey on waiting for the Lord to bring me the right man. At present time it seems to be very difficult but I pray that it gets better as each day goes on. I pray God sends you that perfect man 🙂
It CAN be difficult! I know just how you feel, but remember each day brings the promise one step closer. God sees and God knows. Keep your eyes on him and God will give the right guy a push in your direction. Blessings on your journey, I’ll be right there alongside you in this crazy messed-up thing we call life.
Wow beautifully written, delight yourself in the Lord and He will surely give you the desires of your heart.
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