Conflict, Attacks, and Situations That Seem Impossible to Overcome

Conflict is something a lot of people struggle with, including me. I used to be a person who did not deal with conflict. I would be too emotional, with two extremes, I would blow up or shut entirely down and cut the situation off (even though I may have been rightfully upset). First, I praise God that I have come a long way and am no longer the person I used to be. I have gone from those two extremes to a better balance somewhere in the middle, and I can manage conflict better. However, though I was responding differently on the outside, on the inside, it was still taking an emotional toll on me. I was still holding the weight of situations in my hands, having yet to release them entirely to God. I got to the point where the build-up was too much, and I cried out to God, and He told me He wanted my FULL surrender in these situations.

Yes, I had made progress, and it was awesome. However, God wanted to continue to develop me and train me to release my hold on my situations and hand them over to Him. He wanted me to seek and acknowledge Him; He wanted me to trust Him and believe in His Word. I can do and overcome all things through Christ, who strengthens me. He wanted to show me the changes I had made and needed to make would develop our relationship.

So with this new-found knowledge, it was only a matter of time before I was faced with a test, a chance to gauge my comprehension of the lesson He taught me. Recently, I found myself at odds with my rental management company. This situation hit all my previous triggers. Anyone who knows me knows injustice and disrespect are big ones. This case included those and then some. I was too tired to fight and didn’t want to deal with this situation physically or emotionally, and I wanted to run, but I had to have a place to live. So I trusted God and waited for His guidance. Casting my burdens upon Him. I sought Him in prayer and allowed the Holy Spirit to move me to action. I activated my faith in the situation and believed God could fix it. I SURRENDERED, knowing that regardless of the results, I would STILL trust Him and allow Him to guide me through this conflict.

Ultimately, the Lord delivered well beyond any expectation I could have had. I had a face-to-face meeting with the property manager and assistant property manager shortly after a lengthy email exchange regarding their unwillingness to uphold their promises and honor my request. After our meeting, I ended up with more than they initially promised. Not because I asked for it but because I trusted God and chose not to fight in the flesh but against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. He allowed me to gain skills to handle conflict without blowing up or shutting down, and instead of holding all of my emotions within, I can release them to Him, trusting Him.

When dealing with conflict, attack, or a situation that seems impossible to overcome, keep  these Scriptures close:

Trust God: we have to believe God before we can expect from God.

Trust in the LORD with all your heart And do not lean on your own understanding.Proverbs 3:5 NASB

Remind Yourself Who God Is: tell yourself who God is, in the midst of your situation, never lose sight of who God is.

fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Hebrews 12:2 NASB

Tell Yourself Who You Are: Remember the authority that He has given to you.

But in all these things we overwhelmingly conquer through Him who loved us. Romans 8:37 NASB

I have been crucified with Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself up for me. Galatians 2:20 NASB

Behold, I have given you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing will injure you. Luke 10:19 NASB

Stay Alert: Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry, don’t lose your cool, a hot head is a jumbled mind

everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger  James 1:19 NASB

Never Forget God Is With You: We have a tendency to forget God is with us. So it is important to REMEMBER God is always with you, He will never leave us.

Be strong and courageous, do not be afraid or tremble at them, for the LORD your God is the one who goes with you. He will not fail you or forsake you. Deuteronomy 31:6 NASB

9 thoughts on “Conflict, Attacks, and Situations That Seem Impossible to Overcome

  1. Sheila Qualls says:

    Conflict is never easy but necessary for growth, either in a relationship or with Christ. It’s easier to just shy away than to face it head on. The scripture references are great. I recently wrote on conflict (from a little different angle using a different analogy), but the way to a solution never changes.

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  2. danahoebeke says:

    Well done Tomasa! Surrender is absolutely the key to victory in Christ!
    I am currently writing a bible study on the topic of surrender and am finding that there is no part of the Christian’s life that is untouched by surrender.

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